Sexual Energy Vampires and Shadow Sex

Many of us are looking for an aligned conscious partnership, but amidst this field of modern dating, apps and non-committal instant access sex it seems to be becoming harder and harder for most to manifest their divine soulmate.

We are seeking a high vibration connection but like anything, in order to align to that type of relationship, you have to be a vibrational match for it….. AAAAND in order to do that, you have to face your SHADOW! 

There is no better place for your shadow to show up than within SEX! 

Sexual energy is your very own essential life force. It is your essence personified as energy,  frequency and vibration at its most purest and potent state. 

Whatever shadows are lurking within our unconscious self, will present itself within sex. 

One way to understand your shadows is to understand SEXUAL ENERGY VAMPIRISM. 

Have you fallen prey to a S.E.V due to being out of integrity, alignment or insecurity? Or are you the one unconsciously sucking someone else’s life force during sex to fill a void?

Let’s explore……

What is a Sexual Energy Vampire, and are you dating one?

A Sexual Energy Vampire is someone who energetically takes your precious life force during sex, with no intention or inability to offer anything in return. They feed off your attention and light through means of subtle manipulation to get you into bed.

This can be very subtle and many people are unaware they are dating a sexual energy vampire until it’s too late, when they feel emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically depleted or when that person has their fill and moves onto the next energy bank.

This deviant is tricky to identify at times because they can come in all shapes and packages - from the manipulator, the charmer, the gas lighter, the love bomber, the person that says all the right things you want to hear, they may make you believe that they want a relationship with you and you only until you come to realise that was never the case at all when the illusion is broken.

They usually manage this by concealing their intentions, making the other person believe either overtly or indirectly that they are actually “loved and wanted” when in fact what is being sought after in truth is their energy.

The one common denominator is that they all involve sex where they are not fully disclosing their intentions as a means of getting that much needed “hit.” 

Themes of dishonestly, trust and misaligned intentions almost always present themselves with these types of connections, leaving the person that has been depleted of their lifeforce feeling insecure, hurt, anxious, empty, depleted, confused and needy.

The Question is WHY? Why do these people become energy vampires?

Well sex is healing! It is a gateway to bliss, higher states of consciousness and unity. It is one of the only places that we are free from our ego and connected to divine love.

Sex activates a powerful life force frequency that circulates them between two people. When one of the two is in a depleted state they cannot offer up any energy for the exchange. This means that they only receive (or take) a flow of energy without actually giving any back.

These people become addicted to their fix of this level of frequency because they are unable to self source their own well of divine life force energy, so need to steal it from others otherwise they will be in a state of depletion and energetic survival themselves.

This level of disconnection comes from them not addressing their own energetic or emotional blockages and traumas.

They could also have a lot of low vibration attachments and entities from porn and addictions. 

The vampires' shadows are that of insecurity, low self worth, lack of self love, the need for control, pain and suffering, although many of them are master magicians and can present themselves as confident, happy go lucky, intelligent, kind people. They have become master manipulators!

Like most relationships, there is often a mirror.

So if you have been the one to have had your energy depleted by finding yourself in a situationship where this person never committed to you, always had an excuse, gaslit, ghosted or played a game of push and pull the time you were dating, then you may have been vampirised… and this person may have only wanted you for your light.

So whilst they became a master manipulator to get their fix, where did your shadow show up that you allowed your energy to be taken freely with nothing in return but empty words?

Often we can give away our energy when we want to please or want to be loved, or when we have limiting beliefs around not being enough or feelings of insecurity. We can become an easy target for a sexual energy vampire if we are out of alignment with our truth or our own integrity, and in turn we settle for an illusion of love rather than what we truly desire, believing that something is better than nothing.

Both parties attract each other like a moth to a flame, both in some way feeling unfulfilled and falling prey to illusions rather than energy, because energy doesn't lie.

The good news is that these experiences allowed your shadow wounding to be brought into the light for transmutation. When you raise your level of consciousness and heal any energetic blockages within your life, your ability to discern illusion from reality will increase as your frequency does.

Thus allowing you to attract and accept high quality aligned relationships instead of energy suckers.

If you are looking to empower yourself in dating and relationships, learn how to discern energy from illusion, heal from your past, trust yourself, and attract high quality conscious partnerships into your life, then join me in my SPIRITUAL SOUL MATE PROGRAM.